恋爱是人人都必经过的人生课题，有的很平稳，有的则是像海浪般高潮迭起。从纯爱到吃醋，在恋爱中让你又爱又恨的英文单字：

 

1. secure/insecure (adj.) 安全感／不安全感

A: Why am I feeling so insecure? I can’t bear myself the pain of losing my boyfriend!

A: 为什么我如此没安全感？我无法承受失去他的痛苦！

B: Because you don’t feel confident about yourself, thus you are trying to be secure by leaning on him.

 B: 因为你对自己没有自信，加上你用依赖他的方式去取得安全感。

 

 2. jealous (adj.) 吃醋

A: Who have you been texting to every night before bed?

A: 我真好奇你每天睡前到底在跟谁传简讯？

 B: He is just a friend, Daniel. Can you stop being jealous?

B: 丹尼尔，他只是我的一个朋友。不要吃醋好吗？

 

3. sensitive (adj.) 敏感的

 Sometimes guys could be sensitive too when they are approaching their dream girls.

当想接近心仪的对象时，男人也会变得异常敏感。

 

 4. friend zone (v.) 好人卡

If you keep spending time on a girl who doesn’t like you back, you are probably “friend-zoned.”

如果你一直花时间在一个不喜欢你的女生身上，代表她已默默地把好人卡发给你。

 

＊补充＊ 她把好人卡发给你，换句话说是你「被发好人卡」，因此动词的 friend-zoned 需要用被动式的时态。

 

 5. attractive (adj.) 吸引的

She is so attractive in terms of appearance as well as personality.

她的外表与内在一样吸引人。

 

 6. whine (v.) 发牢骚

Stop whining about how much work load you have. We’re all pretty busy.

别再抱怨你工作量有多重了！大家都很忙！