No Hard Feelings. 别往心里去啊！我不会往心里去的。

 You can say this after someone apologizes to you, to express the fact that you won’t stay angry. This phrase is generally used after apologies for social conflicts that are more serious (or have the potential to be serious) – not small accidents like stepping on someone’s foot.

 

例句：

 

A: 你不是说这套书要留给我么？怎么送别人了？

 

B: 哦，我实在找不到好的礼物送她了。下次给你更好的行不？

No hard feelings? 你别介意啊！

 

 A: 行吧，我也挺想要的。No hard feelings，不过下次别这样了。

 The More The Merrier! 来啊！人越多越热闹！

 

You can say this to show that you are happy when more people are going to join in an activity. “The more the merrier” expresses the idea that it’s OK if additional people join.

 

例句：

 A: 下周末是我家宝贝生日，想邀请你和家人一起来啊！

B：哟，下周末我亲戚也带孩子到家来玩儿，能一起去么？

A: 能啊，太能了，

the more the merrier! 那就等你们来啦！

Join The Club. 一样一样，一样惨

You can say this when another person says something that applies to you too. It is generally used for negative things.

 

例句：

 

A: 哎呀妈呀，越过节越累，简直要忙死了！ B: Join the club。欢迎来到苦逼俱乐部！